What Not to Wear: Miriam the Nudist Poet Entrepreneur

What Not to Wear: Miriam the Nudist Poet Entrepreneur

At the start of the show, What Not to Wear makeover recipient Miriam appeared to rank sky high in the Most Unusual What Not to Wear Subjects List. Described as a 30 year old poet/actress/entrepreneur, Miriam’s other distinguishing characteristic is that she’s a nudist. What Not to Wear frequently illustrated this with a photo that had modesty bands of What Not to Wear logos across Miriam’s body (which, while tacky, was probably less porn-like than black bands blocking out the good bits). By the end of the show, however, Miriam turned out to be one of the most likable, well-adjusted, and foxy makeover gals the show has had in awhile.

What Not to Wear Miriam — The Ambush

I said it last week, too–I’m not liking the corny intros Stacy and Clinton are doing to these episodes. Last week our favorite What Not to Wear duo ended up as the lingerie hanger in the middle of a burlesque show. This week they put on a beat poetry performance describing Miriam’s fashion faux pas, to a mixed response from the bewildered audience. Stacy and Clinton are fun enough on their own–we don’t need super stagey stuff to keep us interested.

What Not to Wear really stretched the PG rating this week with Miriam’s erotic poetry reading, where she opened her robe to display her sheer black lace bra and curvy frame. Halfway through the verse, Stacy and Clinton ambushed Miriam with their bright lights and loud introduction to the show, and Miriam looked alternately confused, annoyed, and frightened. Stacy and Clinton were worried until Miriam finally let out a surprised laugh. “Do you want the money or not?” Stacy asked, and despite some obvious reservations, Miriam just couldn’t resist the lure of that $5000.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Okay, Maybe She’s Not that Weird

Anyone that shows up on What Not to Wear with a hyphenated career path (actress/poet/entrepreneur) comes off as someone who doesn’t know what the heck they’re going to do with their life. The audience may also guiltily feel that the person won’t actually accomplish any of these things. However, Miriam’s “entrepreneur” status didn’t actually sound all that off the wall.

Stacy and Clinton were impressed when Miriam described her business plan–to create personal documentaries for clients. She collected photos, narrative, and film of families to put together their own personal history. The What Not to Wear stylists felt this was a viable career that would have substantial demand–and she needed a wardrobe worthy of that position.

We saw Miriam pursuing her poetry, and after the What Not to Wear makeover, it was clear she was hot enough to be an actress/performer/model. Add that to her clever business idea, and Miriam’s hyphenated career path didn’t seem so crazy.

What Not to Wear Miriam — That Whole Nudist Thing

Miriam wanted it made clear to the What Not to Wear audience that “Nudity is freedom.” After surviving a 7 year relationship where she was controlled and ordered to dress super-conservatively, Miriam broke free and started wearing as little as possible. She loved her curves and wanted to share them with the world. When Clinton said he was fine with his own nudity until he walked past a full-length mirror, Miriam replied “You have issues!”

Miriam became tearful, however, when her friends and family talked about her odd and skimpy clothing choices, referring to her as a “hot mess”. They felt Miriam was smart and fun and had lots of potential, but they thought her wardrobe didn’t reflect that. Miriam said she felt clothing was “conforming”, by forcing her body to fit into clothes a certain way. She admitted, however, that if the people closest to her thought she was a hot mess, then it couldn’t be a good image for her budding business. She was ready for the What Not to Wear team to help her out.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Outfit Number One

Miriam shared a laugh with Stacy and Clinton in the 360 mirror when her large, asymmetrical Afro actually blocked the What Not to Wear stylists from seeing what she looked like. When they did manage to squeeze in, they found her in a loose red nylon skirt down to her ankles, and an orchid print halter that wasn’t doing anything to hold her curves in place. Stacy tugged on the halter straps, pulling Miriam’s chest more into alignment, but Miriam wasn’t impressed. “This outfit highlights what I have to offer,” she protested.

On the first What Not to Wear mannequin, the outfit included a bold print blouse with a tie neck, and a ruffled collar velvet jacket. Miriam didn’t like the blouse, and said the jacket looked “crafty”. Stacy and Clinton cut off her criticisms and told her that the point was to maintain her artistic style while maintaining a level of sophistication her current outfit did not have.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Outfit Number Two

Miriam next brought her business outfit into the What Not to Wear 360 mirror. It had a cute, double-buttoned jacket, but Stacy and Clinton pointed out that it was made of sweatshirt material. The brown wide-legged trousers were the right shape, but they were constructed like yoga pants. Looking into the 360 mirror, Miriam admitted her clunky black footwear looked like “nurse’s shoes”.

The second What Not to Wear mannequin was dressed up in a pale teal tweed skirt suit that Miriam loved. Paired with a bold print top and plenty of bling, it was sophisticated workwear with a creative style. Miriam was a little worried about the added jewelry, as she felt it was one more thing layered on top of her preferred nakedness.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Outfit Number Three

Miriam entered the What Not to Wear 360 mirror with her dressy outfit, a loosely constructed bold print 60s style mini-dress and knee-high black leather boots. While Miriam didn’t look too bad in this feisty outfit, Stacy and Clinton criticized the sack-like nature of the dress and suggested something slinkier. Miriam said she didn’t want something so overt that men were just wanting to grab at her–she quickly qualified that in a certain context it was okay to show everything, but not just for a night out. Miriam forgot about their criticisms when Clinton sweetly said that the dress was “not good enough for the girl in it.”

The What Not to Wear stylists then displayed one of the sexiest and most awesome dresses they’ve ever had on the show–a leopard-print slim dress with a ruched waist and a lace-filled plunging neckline. Stacy, Clinton, and the entire What Not to Wear audience were shocked when Miriam said she didn’t like it. Standing there in a cacophony of primary color blocks, Miriam said the animal print was “too crazy” and just made her want to run away. Stacy and Clinton looked like they wanted to run away.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Dumping Everything

Miriam’s existing wardrobe was a strange mix of bustiers and shapeless turtleneck floor-length dresses. Miriam’s love of nudity apparently influenced her to buy baggy things that wouldn’t constrict her, but she didn’t realize that she didn’t look like a free spirit in them–only dowdy and shapeless. As Stacy ripped the millionth thing from her hands, Miriam protested “But it’s cute!” Stacy was determined. “Whenever you say ‘it’s cute’, I know it doesn’t fit you.” The argyle sequined vest was the last straw, and everything Miriam owned went into the What Not to Wear trash can.

Miriam was a little overwhelmed when she faced the What Not to Wear cameras later. She was nervous over the idea of having to rebuild an entire wardrobe in two days, when it took her years to compile her current collection.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Everyone Woman’s Downfall

On What Not to Wear Shopping Day One, Miriam relented and went in for a bra fitting, or to see the “bra whisperer,” she joked. The saleslady did a nice job, talking about keeping her chest within the edges of her frame for a more slimming look. She got Miriam into a bra that didn’t diminish her curves–just brought them up a little more to better define her hourglass shape.

In a mirror to her current wardrobe, Miriam tried on turtleneck dresses that Clinton lamented resembled blankets or throws, and little girl dresses she could barely squeeze herself into. As the What Not to Wear cameras captured her in an unflattering black bodysuit and strange Asian-style brocade suit, Stacy and Clinton discussed an issue all women have fallen victim to: talking yourself into an outfit.

Miriam was doing what we all do. If we stand a certain way, if we wear a long blouse over it, if we hold our stomachs in–then the outfit will work. Stacy and Clinton rightly advised that you need to love an outfit the moment you put it on, and should never settle. Obviously if something will work if the sleeves are shortened or some other minor adjustment is made, What Not to Wear has always advised buying and tailoring it. We all know, though, if we’re actually going to get it tailored or just say we’ll do it.

What Not to Wear Miriam — The Rules Plus Personal Taste

Miriam had a breakthrough on her What Not to Wear Shopping Day Two. Stacy and Clinton asked her to pick out a dress she loved at first sight, and a dress that she was perhaps not so crazy about but followed The Rules. Miriam picked a black and white print wrap dress that she thought followed the rules, and she was surprised how much she liked it when she tried it on. Stacy and Clinton loved the hourglass shape it gave her.

“So I need to pull more clothes?” Miriam asked. Clinton agreed that shopping sometimes takes tenacity, that you have to just try on a lot of stuff until you find something that works. Miriam then tried on her own choice, a multi-colored print dress with a ruffled neckline and belted waist. Miriam was thrilled when Stacy and Clinton told her she looked great in the waist-defining dress and that it was a good blend of her personal taste and the What Not to Wear rules. Miriam showed the damage from her previous relationship when she said how good it felt to show who she was and be complimented, rather than receiving a negative response.

What Not to Wear Miriam — Adding the Final Touches

What Not to Wear hair stylist Ted discussed Miriam’s huge volume of hair and found out that she loved it. Ted decided to add a reddish brown color to her hair to complement her skin tone, and told her that she needed to have an Afro that was up-to-date and not so reminiscent of the 60s ¬†amp; 70s. Using scissors, he did a “free hand cut” to shorten the top layers, creating a more round, springy, and flirty style than what she’d been wearing previously. It was startling how much the color warmed up her skin, and she loved that she could wear her hair down over her forehead or pushed back. I personally liked the bangs look on her the best.

Next up was What Not to Wear makeup artist Carmindy. She kept the look simple, starting with a little spray-on foundation to even skin tone. She applied cream blush on the apples of Miriam’s cheeks, then smoothed sparkling brown shadow over her eyelids. Carmindy added mascara to the top and bottom lashes, and then finished off the look with a berry lip gloss she felt was “made for” Miriam. “You’ve gone from cute to smokin’ hot!” Carmindy said, spinning the chair around to face the mirror.

At first Miriam was startled by her What Not to Wear makeover. She said she wasn’t used to looking so much like a “porcelain” doll. After a few moments, she said she was starting to like it, and she and Carmindy exchanged hugs.

What Not to Wear Miriam — The Final Reveal

For her first What Not to Wear reveal, Miriam was a statuesque beauty in a turquoise print wrap style blouse with a jeweled waist, black dress pants and heels. (The gorgeous blouse is by Trina Turk; the trousers by Not Your Daughter’s Jeans.) She looked like a model, gorgeous and sophisticated. “I see the difference now,” Miriam said. She also told Stacy and Clinton that seeing her new shape in the mirror made her feel that a bra was “not conformist but feminine”, though she honestly admitted it wasn’t all that comfortable.

For her second What Not to Wear reveal, Miriam donned a blue-gray and orange print blouse, soft blue-gray cardigan, jeans, and a bright orange scarf looped around her neck. She showed off her jeweled accessories and seemed happy that she could look chic but still show off her personal style. (The cool blouse and jewelry were bought at Lee Lee’s Valise.)

The third What Not to Wear reveal was a stunning blue and gray dress with angled seaming that dramatically highlighted her hourglass figure. (The WNTW website lists the dress as a Jones New York gray/purple layered dress, from Bloomingdales. See comments section.) Miriam was practically jumping up and down, exclaiming “I look so good!” Clinton told her that she was a blessed rarity on What Not to Wear, in that she loved her body both with and without clothes. He actually sounded a little envious. Miriam said she was pleased with her new wardrobe, and thought it was “authoritative” yet “relaxed”.

What Not to Wear Miriam — The Verdict

We often learn about style and self-acceptance from a good What Not to Wear episode, but the difference this time was that Miriam taught us as much as Stacy and Clinton did. Though she had suffered from a self-esteem-damaging relationship, Miriam’s response was to throw all of that out and embrace her looks and her body completely. Her frustrations with clothing came from not being able to share her awesomeness with the world, and that is a refreshing attitude on What Not to Wear.

Miriam’s friends and family were thrilled with her new look, and it’s a good bet that Miriam’s hyphenated career path will flourish with the combination of her outgoing personality and new sassy-yet-sophisticated wardrobe. I think What Not to Wear has had a bit of a Renaissance this season, where they’ve worked harder to embrace people’s personal styles and let them be themselves in the best possible way.

In this episode, Miriam got to keep the hair style that she loved, but Ted updated and colored it to make her look even more beautiful. Carmindy kept the makeup simple and neutral to suit Miriam’s preferences–but with just enough sparkle to match Miriam’s personality and wardrobe. Best of all, rather than telling Miriam to button up her large chest underneath a restrictive jacket, they got her into figure-flattering V-neck blouses and snug-fitting dresses. This is a pivotal moment for curvy girls everywhere, and a step in the right direction for What Not to Wear. After all, Stacy and Clinton have always said to love the body you have now and dress it to its best advantage. This week, Miriam supplied the love and Stacy and Clinton provided the wardrobe.

Watch What Not to Wear on TLC, Friday nights at 9/8c. Check your local listings for encore showings and repeats of previous episodes.

 

Why I Use Mint.Com To Monitor My Finances

Why I Use Mint.Com To Monitor My Finances

The mint.com website is a free financial management site run by Intuit, which is the company that produces the popular financial software package Quicken. Obviously nothing is really free in life and users should be prepared for the reality that the ulterior motive of any “free” site is to make money and sell products to customers. However, this does not change the fact that mint.com is a very useful site for a wide variety of financial functions and monitoring.

Tracking mechanism

One of the primary benefits of this site is the ability to track accounts. Users can input their bank accounts, credit cards, loans, assets, and investments. Not all companies are involved, but most of the major players can be accessed. The site stays connected to these accounts and provides individuals with up-to-date balances. Obviously people have to be comfortable giving out financial information of this kind, but managing finances online is increasingly becoming the standard. The site will also alert users through email or smart phone notification when various transactions are posted or statements are ready. This can be particularly helpful for avoiding fraud and knowing when items clear.

Budgeting tools

Another major function of the site is budgeting. Individuals can pick various categories and set budget limits for the month. The site will track transactions from all input accounts and send alerts to the user if categories are exceeded. Some tweaking is required to put transactions in the right categories, but overall the site does a solid job of identifying where various businesses fall in the budgetary scheme. Obviously the site won’t stop people from spending money, but tracking is often the first step towards greater financial discipline. In addition, users can run various reports and see patterns in their spending.

Extra services

As mentioned, the site is designed to provide people with various financial options. This includes different credit cards, loans, insurance, and investment vehicles. The presence of these options are all over the site, but they are no different than banner ads on various websites, and discerning customers can easily pick and choose what they are actually interested in pursuing. Again, this is an understandable part of a company providing relatively free services.

Summary

Online tracking is becoming standard practice and this may be the future of money management as consumers move away from standalone software packages. This site is fairly intuitive and a good way to get a lot of information in a single place. For smart phone users, there is also a mint.com app that can used as a companion to the website.

https://www.mint.com/

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Taking Care of Your Finances in the New Year

Taking Care of Your Finances in the New Year

The New Year is finally here. Out of all the many resolutions floating around finances remain at the top of the list. So, what are some tips you need to remember in order to keep your finances organized and well balanced in the New Year? This article is designed to give you a few pointers.

Taking Care of your Finances in the New Year: Need vs. Want

If we were to comprise a list of the things we “need” we would probably find many things we can do without. This is our first mission, by compiling a list of all of our bills we can eliminate the different “wants” leaving a lot more money to save for the “needs”. Of course, we do all need (once in a while) to spend money frivolously. But it should be planned out and allotted-This will tremendously help your finances and give you that little extra perk.

By deciding what you really need from what you could and should do without, you can save a lot of money. The extra funds can go toward house payments, car payments and credit card debts to improve your credit score. Even if it is only a few extra dollars on top of your minimum payment a month it will significantly improve your Fico. The rest of the money you save should go into a savings account for those emergencies that the new year may hold.

Taking Care of your Finances in the New Year: Emergency Needs

Every year we all face some type of emergency or another. In order to help build our finances in these situations there is something important we can all do. Aflac is a wonderful investment. It has helped my family out tremendously when someone has been injured and could not work. The goal is to keep our finances up and stay out of debt. With a company like this it is easy to build up your bank account when you are physically restricted and unable to earn income.

Other insurances are great to have as well. So, whether it is your home, car, or other expensive purchases you have bought, getting insurance coverage could be a good idea.

Taking Care of your Finances in the New Year: Closing

I hope this first installment has helped in beginning to define basic needs regarding your finances. It is important to always be clear in your choices as to where you spend your money. Because this is a primary concern amongst most families, these guidelines can help you plan out and prepare so that you can find yourself debt free.

Instant Loans for Bad Credit

Instant Loans for Bad Credit

Having a bad credit history does not make you very different form other borrowers. It is just that due to a past mistake of late repayment or bankruptcy you are tagged as a poor credit holder. You can change your future by consolidating your debts. Urgent expenses crop up in everybody life. Apply for instant loans for bad credit are your first step towards improving your credit history.

These are readily available to all kinds of customers. Firstly you can consolidate all your petty debts, pay off all the pending expenses like medical bills, telephone bills, electricity charges, for home improvement and so on with instant loans.

The repayment period can also be extended with loans for bad credit. The company manager will charge you a supplementary fee each time you broaden the settlement period.

This finance does not involve any credit checks as they are granted for a short tenure and they are meant for defective title holders. You have to prove your repaying ability and assure the lender that you are credit worthy. This indeed will lessen the lenders risk.

You have to fill an application form. The information must be true. The lender will verify your details. Once your application is approved the funds will be transferred to your account within few working hours.

You get instant loans for bad credit within few hours as they do not involve long procedures. You can use the funds to change your credit history by repaying the loan amount within the required time.

Instant loans for Bad credit are readily available to serve your fiscal problems. You can now change your credit rating and consolidate your debts. Access the internet to find out the interest rates charged by different lenders. These finance offer quick and hassle free approval to perk up your credit rating.

Talking Openly with Teenagers About Money Finance and Debts

Talking Openly with Teenagers About Money Finance and Debts

Talk openly with teens about money

It’s a very good idea to talk openly to teens about money because this is a method of coaching and mentoring them as it pertains to money and how it works. When you talk openly with teens you help them to understand the misconceptions and the myths about money. They then begin to understand the important laws of money such as compound interest and why it is important to start to save early.

Just to give you an example, if you at the age of 25 begin to save $50 per month until you are 65 years old you will have saved $24,000 without any interest. Now let’s assume you save $50 per month starting at age 25 until you hit 65 years of age but this time the money you are saving is subject to an interest rate of 4%. Your money is now $59,295 instead of $24,000, what a difference this makes.

Let’s look at another example. If a person at the age of 25 begins to save $100 per month until the age of 65 they will have accumulated $48,000 with no interest. Let’s assume using the above example that they now receive interest of 12% on that money by the time they reach 65 they will have accumulated $1,188,242 in savings. This is because of compound interest. You are actually earning interest on your interest.

These examples above are only hypothetical and they certainly don’t take into effect the impact of taxes. Teenagers should know that there are certainly some risks involved when you start investing your money depending upon the type of saving or investing vehicles you use. However when you start young and you are looking at the long term it usually works out in your favor. Certainly there will be some ups and downs when it comes to your money.

You are not guaranteed a profit when you invest on a regular basis and your principal balance could fluctuate up and down depending on the economic conditions which could cause you to lose your initial principal balance.

Teenagers should be warned also about the dangers of credit cards because if they incur too much credit card debt it will limit their ability to save and invest for their future. If you become over burdened with debt it can cause you to incur some past due debts which will cost you money in the long run.

As young adults teenagers will begin to get a lot of credit card offers from various companies. The best practice is to talk about it with your parents and understand that only one credit card is needed to help you establish credit. Once you purchase something pay your balance in full. Oft times when you pay on time for a long period of time the credit card company will increase your line of credit when will tempt you to make additional purchases up to that line of credit.

Resist the temptation to because this is how you are slowly pulled into the system of credit cards. It all starts very innocent and as time goes on, if you are not on guard you will begin to incur a mountain of credit card. Your life is now dependent upon credit card debt.